The limitations of Shyness PT1
- Arie Rivers
- Sep 6, 2025
- 4 min read
Updated: Oct 14, 2025
Many of us grew up being called shy. It became a label, an identity, a limitation wrapped around our being. Although, what if “shy” wasn't who you truly were? & What if you bought that confinement and now are wearing it even at the age you're in?
Here is a Video of a few clearings around this topic, of being shy
The Inheritance of Shyness
What if parents didn’t know what to do with an aware-ful , magical, limitless, ever evolving child? When others said, “She’s too shy,” or “He’s not social enough,” What if parents didn't have the questions to navigate that space to help you through that? What if they simply bought it as truth?
They didn’t realize that shyness was not a core trait but often a shield, they thought they had to have after a while. What if aware-ful children pick up the unspoken judgments in the room, feel the energy of adults expecting performance, perfection, or compliance. Instead of being celebrated for their awareness, they were often misunderstood.
So, the child withdrew. Not because they lacked confidence, but because they were carrying other people’s limitations.
Shyness as a Mask
What if shyness was just a coping mechanism, a way to navigate systems that wasn’t ready for your brilliance? What if, underneath, you were never shy at all?
Everywhere you decided that being quiet, small, or hidden was safer, is it actually yours? Or is it an energetic contract you unconsciously agreed too due to your parents not having the awareness on how to handle your your magic, potency & capacities?
Clearing Questions
Here are some questions to unhook from the limitations of shyness and the weight of projections you inherited:
How much of your shyness was not yours to begin with? Everything all that brings up, do you choose to release, let go, and allow all of that to be removed from your reality now?Yes I choose this. Retract, rescind, revoke, recant, reclaim, renounce, denounce, destroy and uncreate it all. Make null and void ×3. OUT OUT OUT. Banish, vanquish ×3. Vaporize, liquify ×3. 360 Vaporize liquify. Pulverize & shrink into less than nothing.
Everywhere you were told “you’re shy” and made it real, and true, all of those identities of shyness, projections, roles and agendas of being shy do you choose to release, let go, and allow all of that to be removed from your reality now?Yes I choose this. Retract, rescind, revoke, recant, reclaim, renounce, denounce, destroy and uncreate it all, Make null and void ×3. OUT OUT OUT. Banish, vanquish ×3. Vaporize, liquify ×3. 360 Vaporize liquify. Pulverize & shrink into less than nothing.
What if your quiet moments, moments of acknowledgement of things others don't see were not wrongness, but awareness? And what would it be like to acknowledge that awareness instead of judging it? Receive that information, receive x3
How many people’s beliefs about you being shy are you still carrying in your body, your nervous system, cellular memory, your choices? Do you choose to release, let go, and allow all of that to be removed from your reality now?Yes I choose this. Retract, rescind, revoke, recant, reclaim, renounce, denounce, destroy and uncreate it all, Make null and void ×3. OUT OUT OUT. Banish, vanquish ×3. Vaporize, liquify ×3. 360 Vaporize liquify. Pulverize & shrink into less than nothing. Body, let all of that go now, none of that is yours, never was yours, not yours let it go, let it go, let it go
If you no longer had to hide behind shyness, what possibilities of connection, play, and authentic self-expression could show up? Receive in all directions, all contributive angles x3
Reclaiming Your Voice
Releasing the label of “shy” isn’t about becoming loud or extroverted. It’s about reclaiming your voice, your presence, your natural rhythm of expression. It’s about no longer making yourself wrong for the way your energy flows, for your capacities, for being different.
When you clear the limitations handed to you, you uncover the truth: You were never shy. You were aware and powerful beyond what others could even possibly imagine.
And now..... here is an invitation to rewrite those stories.
Clearing Questions
What gifts of awareness have you been silencing that are ready to be received and expressed now?Receive in all directions.
How much more of your voice can you allow to flow, without resistance, without apology?Receive in all directions.
What magic have you been hiding under the label of “shy” that is now asking to be revealed?Receive in all directions.
What contribution can your authentic presence be to the Planet as you no longer diminish your expression, and perceptions?Receive in all directions.
How much ease, joy, and expansion can you receive when you honor the rhythm of your own awareness?Receive in all directions.
How was this article a contribution for you? Have you met other people that are shy? Your contributions help, share your experience, reach out lets break these paradigms together.
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